The pace of modern life is often frantic at times. Most adults find that they need to manage a range of conflicting demands in the workplace—from dealing with a never-ending stream of emails to planning tasks and preparing for meetings. In addition, after the working day is over, there are often a range of activities that need to be co-ordinated in the home. This is especially true if you have a growing family and need to organize homework and after-school activities for your children.
Along with the routine tasks that adults need to manage in their daily life, there are also key events that can pose significant challenges. Some of these issues may require extensive planning and preparation to resolve or achieve them, whilst others may require the help of dedicated professionals.
In this article, four of the key challenges in life will be explored in detail, along with strategies to cope with them or how to seek help when they occur.
Dealing with bereavement
It is an unpleasant fact that in adult life, there are occasions when close family members or loved ones sadly pass away. Commonly, as people are growing up, their first encounter with bereavement is when an elderly grandparent dies—often due to old age or increasingly poor health. In these circumstances, the passing of an elderly relative is expected, and the family will have time to prepare. Clearly, it will still be a troubling and saddening time, but death in old age is an expected occurrence.
When dealing with the death of an elderly loved one it is important to know their final wishes and how they wish their funeral to take place. Funerals can be complicated and a lot of specific steps will need to be planned. You can read more about how to plan a funeral here.
Sadly, in some circumstances, the death of a loved one is completely unexpected and can occur as the result of a serious accident or a terminal illness. In these circumstances, especially if the loved one is not in their senior years, the impact of the loss can be devastating.
Grief over the unexpected death of a family member or loved one can be immense and it has the potential to cause significant psychological pain and suffering. In this situation, it is important to seek professional help to deal with the emotions that stem from this loss. This can be achieved by contacting a dedicated grief counseling service.
Coping with divorce
Unfortunately, it is recognized that millions of marriages will eventually end in divorce. No couple expects to reach a stage in their marriage when they no longer wish to be together, but it can and does happen. Recent statistics suggest that in America around 40% of all marriages will eventually end in divorce.
One of the most common reasons for divorce is infidelity on the part of one or both spouses. Infidelity often leads to a complete breakdown of a marriage as the trust between partners is destroyed, and feelings of betrayal and anger replace the once shared affection that the married couple enjoyed.
When a couple are certain that they wish to be divorced there are generally two routes to take to pursue this. If they are still on speaking terms and both wish the divorce to be completed amicably and with a minimum of disagreement, there may not be a need to involve the courts. Today, there are a wide range of online divorce firms who can facilitate a reasonably quick divorce if there is an agreement on both sides. This can be an extremely cost-effective way of separating, but tends to rely on both parties being in agreement over the terms of the divorce.
In circumstances where an agreement on financial settlements cannot be reached, it may be necessary to hire a dedicated divorce lawyer to progress the divorce through the courts. Clearly, this can be a more expensive option as there will be higher legal fees—although in some circumstances this will still be the best way to proceed.
Recovering from substance abuse
Substance abuse is a problem that is often not spoken about; but it can affect millions of people around the world, and it is an issue that needs to be overcome in order to enjoy a full and happy life.
People from all backgrounds can find that they become addicted to a specific substance (such as alcohol, prescription drugs, or illicit drugs) and it begins to take over their life. Put simply, substance abuse can damage relationships, cause financial difficulties, and can lead to problems at work.
The first step in dealing with a substance abuse problem is to recognize that you suffer from this addiction. This can be difficult to acknowledge but is a vital part of the route to recovery.
For many addicts, the next step is to investigate getting professional help for the substance abuse issue. Intensive outpatient programs (IOPs) are commonly provided by substance abuse centers, and some of these providers will have a treatment plan for recovering addicts that is different from other IOPs. Key treatments involve group therapy and detoxification programs, but most are tailored to the individual and the substance that they have been abusing.
In life, it can be extremely challenging to manage your finances and stay debt-free. Large purchases such as buying a car or a home will often require outside finance to be sought and then repaid over time with additional interest.
If a person takes on too much debt over time, they may find that their monthly repayments form a significant part of their total income and they have little disposable income for daily purchases.
Staying debt-free can be difficult to achieve, but by setting a monthly budget and limiting the amount of outside credit you take on, it is possible to minimize your levels of personal debt. If you experience extreme financial problems due to excessive debt it is important to seek help from a specialist in debt management. In some circumstances you may be able to apply for insolvency to release yourself from some forms of repayment, although this may have a significant effect on your credit rating.
To sum up
Some of the major challenges in life involve dealing with bereavement or divorce, finding help for substance abuse issues, and staying debt free. All these situations require careful consideration and planning, and you may need to contact specialist professionals or organizations to effectively deal with them.